高等意识手册-第6章

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is　my　own　programming　that　creates　my　actions　and　also　influences　the
reactions　of　people　around　me。
Whenever　you　are　unhappy；　your　emotions　are　telling　you　that　people　and
things　are　not　fulfilling　the　addiction　patterns　you　have　programmed　into　your
bioputer。　But　you　usually　do　not　talk　to　yourself　in　this　realistic　way。
Instead；　you　blame　your　unhappiness　on　somebody　or　something　outside　of
you。　You　say　things　like；　“Mary　makes　me　jealous；”　or；　“Bill　makes　me
mad。”　But　what　is　really　happening　is　that　someone　is　doing　things　that　do
not　conform　with　the　patterns　of　your　addictions　　and　your　addictions　are
making　you　unhappy。　When　you　take　full　responsibility　here　and　now　for　all
of　your　feelings　and　for　everything　that　happens　to　you；　you　never　again
blame　the　people　and　situations　in　the　world　outside　of　you　for　any　unhappy
feelings　that　you　have。　You　realize　that　it　is　an　evasion　to　blame　“others。”
You’ve　been　doing　it　to　yourself！
You　can　stop　being　a　mechanical；　puter…like　person　who　views　himself　as
“pushed　around”　by　the　world　when　you　realize　that　only　you　can　“push”
yourself。　You　begin　to　see　the　connection　between　your　emotional
programming　and　your　suffering。　You　start　doing　something　about　it　　which
means　reprogramming　yourself。
Your　mind　creates　your　universe。　Your　expectations；　demands；　hopes；　fears；
addictions；　motivations；　past　experience；　your　language　system；　your
individual　accumulation　of　ideas；　theories；　and　intellectual　stuff；　your
emotions；　the　structure　and　functioning　of　your　nervous　system　and　the
feedback　from　your　entire　body　all　interact　in　a　plex　way　to　produce　your
perceptions　　the　“picture”　you　create　from　the　energies　you　receive　through
your　various　senses　from　people　and　things　around　you。　Your　perceptions　are
thus　a　joint　phenomenon　of　the　observer　and　the　observed。
You　receive　a　feedback　from　the　people　and　things　around　you　that
continually　modifies　your　processing　of　ining　sensory　data。　For　example；
a　loving　person　lives　in　a　loving　world。　As　loving　individuals　flow　through
their　moment…to…moment　lives；　their　gentle；　accepting　consciousness　is
mirrored　by　the　people　around　them。　As　the　Proverbs　remind　us；　“A　soft
answer　turneth　away　wrath。”
Similarly；　a　hostile　person　lives　in　a　hostile　world。　If　you　go　about　with
rockness　inside　you；　if　you　view　others　as　petitive　to　you；　if　you　have　a
thin　surface　politeness　with　instant　anger；　ridicule；　and　antagonism　when
things　don’t　go　your　way；　you　will　create　people　around　you　that　have　exactly
those　characteristics。　In　other　words；　your　actions　create　the　reactions　of
people　around　you　　except　when　you　are　with　people　living　in　the　Fourth　（or
higher）　Center　of　Consciousness。　Conscious　beings　remain　loving　and
centered　no　matter　how　tense　the　drama　around　them。
The　world　thus　tends　to　be　your　mirror。　A　peaceful　person　lives　in　a　peaceful
world。　An　angry　person　creates　an　angry　world。　A　helpful　person　generates
helpful；　loving　energy　in　others。　An　unfriendly　person　should　not　be　surprised
when　he　or　she　meets　only　people　who　sooner　or　later　respond　in　an
unfriendly　way。　A　happy　person　finds　the　world　filled　with　happy　people　
for　even　unhappy　people　experience　temporary　happiness　and　joy　when　they
are　with　a　genuinely　happy　and　joyous　person！
Sometimes　people　mirror　you　but　with　a　reverse　image。　When　you　are
addicted　to　one　side　of　a　polarity；　you　can　create　the　opposite　polarity　around
you。　For　example；　if　you　are　pulsively　and　addictively　neat　and　orderly；
others　around　you　will　tend　to　be　more　sloppy　than　usual。　If；　on　the　other
hand；　you　are　addictively　sloppy；　you　can　create　neatness　responses　around
you。　The　polarity　of　your　programming　may　evoke　an　opposite　ego　response
in　the　people　with　whom　you　interact。
As　you　grow　in　consciousness；　you　begin　to　realize　the　hundreds　of　ways　in
which　you　create　the　consciousness　of　everyone　around　you。　And；　of　course；
they　reciprocally　play　a　part　in　determining　the　contents　of　your　moment…tomoment
consciousness。　This　feedback　of　consciousness　offers　exquisite
cosmic　humor　when　you　clearly　see　what　is　really　happening　。　。　。
As　you　understand　your　polarities　and　free　yourself；　you　begin　to　tune　in　to
everyone　in　their　deeper　levels　of　being　　where　we　are　alike　and　experience
oneness　together。　When　you　free　yourself　of　your　addictions；　you　help　to　free
others　of　their　addictions。
Your　predictions　and　expectations　are　thus　self…fulfilling。　Since　your
consciousness　creates　your　universe；　all　you　have　to　do　to　change　your　world
is　to　change　your　consciousness！　It’s　the　only　way　to　live　in　a　beautiful；
joyous　world。　As　you　learn　to　use　the　Twelve　Pathways　to　bee　a　more
loving；　conscious　being；　you　will　find　yourself　living　in　an　Ocean　of　loving；
conscious　beings。　Without　trying　to　change　others；　you　will　be　acting　in　a
way　that　is　maximally　effective　in　helping　others　bee　more　loving　and
conscious。
SIXTH　PATHWAY
I　accept　myself　pletely　here　and　now　and　consciously　experience
everything　I　feel；　think；　say；　and　do　（including　my　emotion…backed
addictions）　as　a　necessary　part　of　my　growth　into　higher　consciousness。
The　Living　Love　Way　to　Higher　Consciousness　is　based　on　the　instant
emotional　acceptance　here　and　now　of　that　which　you　previously　regarded　as
unacceptable　in　your　life。　Acceptance　simply　means　that　you　won’t　cause
yourself　emotional　conflict　because　of　your　current　perceptions。　Emotional
acceptance　doesn’t　mean　that　you　have　to　continue　living　the　rest　of　your　life
with　any　particular　person　or　situation。　You　are　free　to　do　anything　you　prefer
to　do　　but　don’t　be　addicted　to　the　results　of　your　actions。　If　someone　does
something　that　“hurts　your　ego；”　you　will　grow　fastest　if　you　consciously
regard　him　or　her　as　your　teacher　who　is　enabling　you　to　discover　which
addictions　you　will　have　to　reprogram。
You　really　savor　living　when　you　consciously　experience　everything　that　you
feel　and　do　as　taking　place　in　the　theater　that　we　call　our　world。　You　see
yourself　and　others　as　actors　in　the　daily　drama　of　life。　But　the　real　you　is　not
your　body　or　mind。　You’re　not　the　actor。　The　real　you　is　your　Consciousawareness。
And　your　Conscious…awareness　is　just　digging　the　whole　show
from　the　audience。　Shakespeare　wrote；
All　the　world’s　a　stage；
And　all　the　men　and　women；　merely　players；
They　have　their　exits　and　their　entrances；
And　one　man　in　his　time　plays　many　parts。
When　you　watch　the　entire　drama　of　your　life　and　that　of　other　people　from
the　safe　vantage　point　of　the　audience；　you　begin　to　provide　a　distance　that
enables　you　to　see　your　addictions　more　clearly。　You　will　find　it　easier　to
pletely　accept　the　addictive　dramas　that　you　have　to　play　out　on　the　stage
of　your　life。　You　will　find　a　turned…on　joy　in　consciously　experiencing
everything　as　a　necessary　part　of　your　growth　into　higher　consciousness。
To　grow　in　the　Living　Love　Way；　you　do　not　have　to　drill　yourself　and
criticize　yourself　with　military　precision。　Just　experience　everything　in　an
accepting；　relaxed；　and　conscious　way　　and　realize　that　every　one　of　your
experiences　is　perfect　for　your　here　and　now　growth　into　higher
consciousness。　Your　addictions　will　gradually　fade　away　when　you　use　the
Living　Love　Pathways　to　consciously　interpret　your　moment…to…moment
stream　of　consciousness。　Don’t　push　the　river　　just　experience　the　river
consciously　from　the　vantage　point　of　the　Twelve　Pathways。
Chapter　7
Interacting　With　Others
Flowing　　not　manipulation　　is　the　way　of　higher　consciousness。　Flowing
means　moving　with　the　forces　around　us　　being　in　tune　with　the　vibrations
of　the　people　and　things　in　our　environment。　Flowing　enables　us　to　find　the
love；　beauty；　and　peace　that　we　are　missing　in　our　lives。　But　flowing　is
impossible　based　on　the　models　of　how　to　be　happy　that　we　learned　in　our
childhood；　for　we　cannot　flow　or　harmonize　when　we　are　the　slaves　of　our
addictions。　Our　addictions　force　us　to　manipulate　ourselves　　and　others。　As
adults　whose　minds　and　bodies　have　pleted　their　structural　growth；　we
have　the　potential　of　flowing　in　the　river　of　our　lives　in　a　beautiful；　loving
way。
SEVENTH　PATHWAY
I　open　myself　genuinely　to　all　people　by　being　willing　to　fully
municate　my　deepest　feelings；　since　hiding　in　any　degree　keeps　me
stuck　in　my　illusion　of　separateness　from　other　people。
As　you　begin　to　uplevel　all　of　your　addictions　to　the　status　of　preferences　（or
eliminate　them　entirely）；　you　will　discover　that　you　no　longer　have　anything
to　hide　from　other　people。　It　then　feels　good　to　be　able　to　municate　with
each　person　exactly　what　your　are　experiencing。　As　you　grow　into　higher
consciousness　through　eliminating　your　addictions；　you　will　be　able　to　drop
all　deceptive；　subject…object　manipulation　in　the　games　you　have　been　playing
　the　money　game；　the　security　game；　the　male…female　game；　the　prestige
game；　the　power　game；　the　knowledge　game；　the　expert　game；　etc。　These　can
be　beautiful　games　to　play　when　you　play　them　consciously　and　lovingly；　but
they　generate　suffering　and　unhappiness　when　you　play　them　addictively。
When　you　are　not　pletely　open　and　truthful　to　all　people　　when　you　are
trying　to　hide　a　part　of　your　inner　feelings　　you　continue　the　illusion　of
separateness　from　others。　Hasn’t　everyone　been　caught　up　in　the　addictions
for　security；　sensation；　and　power？　Are　you　under　the　illusion　that　you　have
desires　and　feelings　that　are　so　horrible　that　others　will　be　shocked？　Or　are
we　really　all　one？　Deep　inside；　all　of　us　have　experienced　this　self…imposed
suffering　and　isolation　that　keeps　us　from　being　peaceful　and　loving　　even
though　we　may　not　have　perceived　it　as　self…imposed。　We　have　all　been　in
similar　predicaments　at　one　time　or　another　in　our　lives。
One　of　the　ways　out　of　this　wall　of　isolation　is　to　municate；　“Well；　here　I
am。　This　is　what　my　addictions　are　making　me　feel　here　and　now。　I　accept
myself　（including　my　addictions）　as　being　on　an　unfolding　journey　toward　a
peaceful；　loving　state　of　higher　consciousness。”
When　you’re　around　someone　who　is　experiencing　fairly　continuous　states　of
higher　consciousness；　you　can　be　sure　that　he　or　she　will　conditionally　accept
you　exactly　where　you　are　now　　for　he　or　she　has　traveled　over　the　same
road　and　prefers　to　help　you。　You　can　grow　fastest　and　enjoy　the　trip　most
（even　though　your　remaining　addictions　make　it　a　bit　rocky　sometimes）　if　you
can　relax　and　just　municate　fully。
It　feels　so　good　to　be　able　to　just　open　up　and　let　people　see　all　of　you。
You’ll　be　amazed　at　how　quickly　they　can　then　cut　through　their　drama　and
accept　you　without　the　phony　masks　and　roles　with　which　you　previously
identified。　You　have　every　right　to　feel　exactly　as　you　feel。　If　“others”　are
bothered；　that’s　their　problem。　You’re　their　teacher　giving　them　experiences
they　need　to　reprogram　their　addictions　　just　as　they　are　your　teacher
enabling　you　to　find　your　addictions。
When　you　consistently　use　the　Pathways；　you　do　not　have　to　scream；
viciously　attack；　or　otherwise　unduly　threaten　another　person　in　order　to
municate　your　deepest　feelings。　You　don’t　need　to　lay　judgments　on
people　or　prove　them　wrong。　You　just　talk　about　your　own　consci