高等意识手册-第7章

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municate　your　deepest　feelings。　You　don’t　need　to　lay　judgments　on
people　or　prove　them　wrong。　You　just　talk　about　your　own　consciousness。
Instead　of；　“You　are　horrible　and　I　don’t　want　to　ever　see　you　again；”　you　can
say；　“You’ve　put　me　in　touch　with　one　of　my　addictions；　and　right　now　I　feel
so　angry　at　you　I　don’t　want　to　be　with　you。”　When　you　just　talk　about　your
own　consciousness；　you　give　both　yourself　and　the　other　person　a　better
chance　to　work　through　the　addictive　programming　that　produces　the　illusion
of　separateness。
The　Ninth　Pathway　suggests　that　you　give　yourself　a　short　period　of　time　to
work　through　the　emotion　caused　by　your　addiction。　But　if　you　are　at　the
beginning　of　your　consciousness　growth；　you　may　find　it　more　important　to
municate　quickly　so　that　your　relationships　are　always　“up　front。”
Remember；　hiding　separates；　openness　unites。
As　you　grow　into　higher　consciousness；　you　will　bee　aware　of　the　many
ways　in　which　you　have　been　involved　in　plex　role　playing；　with　hidden
“shoulds”　and　“shouldn’ts”　that　create　plicated　patterns　of　demanding
and　expectation。　You　can　work　effectively　toward　the　“us”　space　when　you
genuinely　and　openly　municate　your　feelings　and　reveal　the　security；
sensation；　and　power　dance　that　you　have　been　doing。　You　will　find　that　you
can　usually　cut　through　these　ensnaring　dramas　by　expressing　your
preferences　clearly　to　yourself　and　others。　You　will　realize　that　open
munication　of　your　innermost　feelings　helps　your　ego　（and　the　egos　of
other　people）　to　get　free　of　addictive　programming　which　in　the　long　run　only
produces　unhappiness　and　alienation。
EIGHTH　PATHWAY
I　feel　with　loving　passion　the　problems　of　others　without　getting
caught　up　emotionally　in　their　predicaments　that　are　offering　them
messages　they　need　for　their　growth。
All　your　emotional　problems　are　created　by　your　addictions。　Your　growth
into　higher　consciousness　consists　of　being　free　of　these　traps。　When　you
interact　with　people　who　are　still　involved　in　this　automatic　puter…like
emotional　programming；　it　is　important　that　you　learn　to　feel　their　problems
with　loving　passion；　but　without　getting　caught　up　emotionally　in　their
predicaments。　passionate　understanding　　yes；　pity　and　miseration
　no。
passion　means　that　when　you　empathize　with　the　predicaments　of　other
people；　you　silently　send　out　the　vibration；　“Yes；　I　know。　I’ve　been　there　too。
It’s　OK　to　feel　the　way　you　do　　however；　try　to　see　that　it’s　all　drama。　Life
always　has　its　‘tigers’　　and　we　do　what　we　can　about　them。　But　above　all；
let’s　be　sure　to　continuously　enjoy　the　‘strawberries。’　There　are　always
enough　strawberries　to　enjoy　our　here　and　now　if　we　don’t　put　all　of　our
attention　on　the　tigers！”
passion　means　that　you　understand　the　duality　and　separation　they　are
creating　in　themselves　by　rejecting　what　is　here　and　now　in　their　lives　　but
you　do　not　get　caught　up　in　their　poignant　drama。　passion　means　that
you　realize　that　you　can　do　the　most　for　other　people　when　you　stay　centered
and　high　and　loving　whenever　you　are　around　them　for　they　are　playing　out
their　addictions；　suffering　because　of　them；　and　hopefully　picking　up　the
messages　life　is　offering　them。　passion　means　that　you　love　and　serve
them　from　a　clear　love　space；　and　not　from　a　pulsiveness　or　guilt
motivated　by　your　remaining　security；　sensation；　or　power　addictions。
You　learn　not　to　give　gifts　that　you　cannot　emotionally　afford　to　give。　When
you　resent　helping　someone；　this　creates　obligations；　duality；　and　separation。
You　cannot　psychologically　afford　to　give　such　help；　and　the　recipient　cannot
afford　to　receive　it。　The　price　in　personal　distance　and　separation　is　too　high
if　you　give　to　avoid　a　feeling　of　“guilt”　or　from　a　“should”　or　“ought”
motivation。
When　you　help　someone　because　of　a　feeling　of　obligation　or　duty　rather　than
free…flowing　love；　you　may　find　yourself　resenting　the　person　for　needing
your　help。　These　negative　feelings　can　prevent　you　from　being　sensitive　to
his　or　her　real　here…and…now　needs；　and　doing　or　saying　what　would　really　be
helpful。　Very　often　just　being　in　a　loving　space　with　a　person　as　you　listen　to
him　or　her　is　more　helpful　than　any　advice　you　could　give。
When　you　can　“help”　someone　with　a　feeling　of　love　and　oneness　　you　just
do　it　because　it　feels　good　to　you。　When　you　feel　oneness　with　another；　there
is　no　giver　or　receiver　　there’s　just　us　here。　It’s　like　one　hand　washing
another。　You　are　just　letting　energy　flow　through　you。
When　you　are　with　someone　who　is　trapped　in　the　suffering　caused　by
addictions；　you　use　this　as　an　opportunity　to　work　on　your　consciousness。
The　greatest　thing　you　can　do　for　“others”　is　to　remain　happy　and　loving
when　you　are　with　them。　You　do　not　get　caught　up　as　a　supporting　actor　no
matter　how　tragic　the　role　they　are　playing　in　the　drama　of　their　life。　It’s　their
thing　to　play　this　role。　They　probably　chose　this　role　（either　consciously　or
unconsciously）　and　are　clinging　to　it。　The　best　way　to　give　them　a　chance　to
free　themselves　from　their　addictive　trap　is　for　you　to　avoid　getting　caught　up
emotionally　in　the　“stuff”　that　they　are　taking　so　seriously。　They　are　not　that
“stuff”　with　which　they　are　identifying。　Behind　all　that；　here　we　are。
As　the　Law　of　Higher　Consciousness　suggests；　the　game　is　to　“Love
Everyone　Unconditionally　　Including　Yourself。”　As　you　begin　to　increase
the　number　of　people　for　whom　you　feel　unconditional　love；　you　will　be
aware　of　the　many　security；　sensation；　and　power　dramas　that　each　of　them　is
busily　playing　out。　You　realize　that　you　cannot；　in　practice；　have　enough　time
and　energy　to　love　everyone　you　meet　if　you　have　a　“bleeding　heart”
response　to　the　heap　of　problems　people　are　creating　in　their　lives。
Your　life　works　best　when　you　love；　serve；　and　flow　your　loving　energy　　not
from　a　lower　consciousness　motivation　of　“I　am　helping　you；”　or　“I　will　save
you；”　but　simply　from　the　awareness　that　“the　universe　gave　this　energy　to　me
and　it　feels　good　to　pass　it　along。”　As　you　bee　more　conscious；　your
energy　will　increase。　And　also；　as　you　bee　more　conscious；　less　of　it　will
be　drained　by　your　own　security；　sensation；　and　power　addictions。　You　will
then　liberate　a　continuous　stream　of　energy　which　will　flow　into　loving　and
serving　people　around　you。
NINTH　PATHWAY
I　act　freely　when　I　am　tuned　in；　centered；　and　loving；　but　if　possible　I
avoid　acting　when　I　am　emotionally　upset　and　depriving　myself　of　the
wisdom　that　flows　from　love　and　expanded　consciousness。
When　you　are　emotionally　upset；　you　energize　the　addictive　patterns　of　other
people　who　are　also　caught　in　the　lower　levels　of　consciousness。　They　will
mirror　your　uptightness；　and　will　not　be　tuned　in；　perceptive；　and　able　to　fully
understand　what　you　are　trying　to　tell　them。　They　will　reflect　your　inner
conflicts；　for　you　will　trigger　their　addictions　　and　this　will　interfere　with
effective　munication。　The　things　you　do　or　say　when　you　have　stirred　up
your　emotions　and　the　emotions　of　other　people　will　be　handled　in　a　way　that
is　destructive　of　peace；　love；　and　oneness。　You　may　be　able　to　pull　a　power
trip　to　make　something　happen　　but　it　will　not　feel　right　to　all　concerned。
And　the　future　consequences　of　your　actions　will　cause　greater　future
conflicts。
Bad　vibrations；　like　the　measles；　are　contagious。　Every　time　you　interact　with
anger；　resentment；　or　fear；　you　add　a　little　reinforcement　to　the　addictions
from　which　we　wish　to　be　liberated。　You　know　the　story　of　the　man　who
bawled　out　his　friend；　and　the　friend　went　home　and　fought　with　his　wife；
who　spanked　her　child；　who　then　kicked　the　cat。
Now　let’s　turn　it　around　　for　good　vibrations　are　also　catching。　Let’s　be　the
man　who　plimented　his　friend；　and　the　friend　went　home　and　kissed　his
wife；　who　was　so　extra　loving　to　her　child　that　he　gave　the　cat　some　milk
without　even　being　asked！
To　avoid　adding　to　the　total　sum　of　the　bad　vibrations　in　the　world；　unless　you
are　in　physical　danger；　wait　until　you　are　tuned　in；　centered；　and　loving　before
you　act。　Then　your　perception　and　wisdom　may　lead　you　to　choose　a　more
effective　course　of　action。　But　even　if　you　do　the　same　thing　that　you
originally　intended　to　do；　it　now　has　a　better　chance　of　success　because　the
consciousness　level　of　everyone　concerned　is　elevated。　Instead　of　acting　out
a　drama　of　addictions；　you　are；　here　and　now；　municating　as　a　tuned…in
human　being　telling　what　you　feel　and　what　you　prefer。
The　Seventh　Pathway　and　the　Ninth　Pathway　put　you　in　an　interesting
predicament。　The　Seventh　Pathway　tells　you　to　municate　your　deepest
feelings；　and　the　Ninth　Pathway　says　for　you　to　withhold　your
munication；　if　possible；　until　you　are　perceptive；　centered；　and　loving。
What　this　means　is　that　you　are　always　ready　to　be　pletely　open　and　to
municate　with　people；　but　if　you　are　caught　in　the　grip　of　a　disturbing
emotion；　you　give　yourself　a　little　time　to　work　on　your　addiction　　rather
than　acting　out　the　fight…or…flight　feeling　you　have　triggered。
A　part　of　your　growth　into　higher　consciousness　will　be　associated　with　how
perceptively　you　handle　these　two　Pathways。　You　can　use　the　Ninth　Pathway
to　hide　　or　you　can　use　it　to　delay　your　responses　to　people　long　enough　to
give　the　other　Pathways　an　opportunity　to　rescue　you　from　the　negative
emotions　you　have　triggered。　Always　remember　that　you　cannot　put　off　for
long　your　making　an　up…front　munication　of　your　deepest　feelings　if　you
wish　to　be　conscious；　perceptive；　and　loving。　Unexpressed　feelings　act　like　a
cancer　in　your　brain　that　malignantly　spreads　　warping　your　perceptions　and
bringing　you　alienation　and　suffering。　You　thus　learn　to　use　the　Seventh　and
Ninth　Pathways　to　create　more　and　more　aliveness　and　beauty　in　all　of　your
relationships　with　other　people。
Chapter　8
Discovering　My　Conscious　Awareness
The　Twelve　Pathways　give　you　a　plete　solution　to　every　emotional
problem　in　your　life。　Whenever　you　experience　unfortable　emotional
waves；　you　will　find　that　the　Pathways　are　always　ready　to　steer　you　around
the　rocks　into　the　peaceful　waters。
TENTH　PATHWAY
I　am　continually　calming　the　restless　scanning　of　my　rational　mind　in
order　to　perceive　the　finer　energies　that　enable　me　to　unitively　merge
with　everything　around　me。
When　our　wonderful　bioputers　are　dominated　by　our　addictions；　our
consciousness　is　scattered　and　harried。　Our　consciousness　is　then　like　a
television　set　that　drifts　from　the　channel；　that　turns　off　when　we　want　to　use
it；　that　sometimes　won’t　stay　turned　off　when　we　wish　to　sleep；　that　is　subject
to　fading；　and　that　will　tune　in　only　the　lower　channels。　We　would　not
tolerate　this　type　of　performance　from　a　television　set；　but　unfortunately　most
of　us　are　so　accustomed　to　the　poor　performance　of　our　minds　that　we　often
accept　such　inefficiency　as　“normal。”
What　is　meant　when　the　Tenth　Pathway　tells　you　to　calm　the　restless　scanning
of　your　rational　mind？　As　you　grow　in　awareness；　you　will　begin　to　realize
that　the　activity　of　your　rational　mind　is　generally　sparked　by　your　security；
sensation；　and　power　motivations。　You　are　trying　to　hold　onto　something　you
do　have