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49 Of Suitors
Many ill matters and projects are undertaken; and private suits do putrefy the public
good。 Many good matters are undertaken with bad minds; I mean not only corrupt minds; but crafty minds; that intend not performance。 Some embrace suits; which never mean to deal effectually in them; but if they see there may be life in the matter; by some other mean; they will be content to win a thank; or take a second reward; or at least to make use; in the mean time; of the suitor's hopes。
Some take hold of suits only for an occasion; to cross some other; or to make an information; whereof they could not otherwise have apt pretext; without care what become of the suit; when that turn is served: or generally; to make other men's business a kind of entertainment; to bring in their own。 Nay; some undertake suits with a full purpose; to let them fall; to the end; to gratify the adverse party; or competitor。
Surely; there is; in some sort; a right in every suit: either a right of equity; if it be a suit of controversy; or a right of desert; if it be a suit of petition。 If affection lead a man to favour the wrong side in justice; let him rather use his countenance to compound the matter; than to carry it If affection lead a man to favour the less worthy in desert; let him do it without depraving or disabling the better deserver。 In suits; which a man doth not well understand; it is good to refer them to some friend of trust and judgement; that may report whethe he may deal in them with honour: but let him choose well his referendaries; for else he may be led by the nose。
Suitors are so distasted with delays; and abuses; that plain dealing; in denying to deal in suits at first; and reporting the success barely; and in challenging no more thanks than one hath deserved; is grown not only honourable; but also gracious。 In suits of favour; the first coming ought to take little place: so far forth consideration may be had of his trust; that if intelligence of the matter could not otherwise have been had; but by him; advantage be not taken of the note; but the party left to his other means; and; in some sort; recompensed for his discovery。 To be ignorant of the value of a suit; is simplicity; as well as to be ignorant of the right thereof; is want of conscience。
Secrecy in suits is a great mean of obtaining; for voicing them; to be in forwardness; may discourage some kind of suitors; but doth quicken and awake others。 But timing of the suit is the principal。 Timing; I say; not only in respect of the person that should grant it; but in respect of those which are like to cross it Let a man; in the choice of his mean; rather choose the fittest mean; man the greatest mean: and rather them; that deal in certain things; than those that are general。 The reparation of a denial is sometimes equal to the first grant; if a man show himself neither dejected; nor discontented。 Imqwsmpetas; utaeqwmferas; is a good rule; where a man haul strength of favour: but otherwise; a man were better rise in his suit; for he that would have ventured at first to have lost the suitor; will not in the conclusion lose both the suitor; and his own former favour。 Nothing is thought so basic a request; to a great person; as his letter; and yet; if it be not in a good cause; it is so much out of his reputation。 There are no worse instruments; than these general contrivers of suits; for they are but a kind of poison and infection to public proceedings。
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